Blast from the Past, 1980's

Saturday, our family experienced a "blast from the past, the 1980's."  My friend, Amanda, had her 30th birthday party, 1980's style, and all I can say is there was lots of laughter and fun.  After the initial shock of some of our outfits, the fun, food and silliness began.  We were taken back in time to my childhood, I was a toddler and in elementary school during the 80's.  The fashion for a child was so different than an adult, but I broke out the shoulder pads, converse, and side ponytail.  I did try my hand at some crazy eye shadow and ultra pink blush!  The kids thought it was funny that an adult would have a birthday party, but they had a blast, dancing, eating, and playing games with their friends.  

Amanda's parents decorated the fellowship hall so well, bringing back tones of memories for all of us.  

We have the first original Nintendo, I can't believe Amanda's still works.  There was so much memorabilia, movies, records, etc.  

We danced the "electric slide" and listened to all the 80's music. 

This is probably my favorite picture, the fashion of our men all over the place: Magnum PI, my preppy husband, the skater, and of course, the neon pants!

All the ladies!

Karis and her friend Carly.

The kids trying to limbo!  Look at Karis concentrating so hard!

There was plenty of good food, lots of snacks and of course cake.  My little man was all over the cake as usual.  If you find the food, you will find Noah!

Tess, Amanda (the birthday girl), and me 

And last our family portrait, our interpretation of the 80's on a limited budget!!

Thanks Amanda for giving us a reason to go back in time.  It was so fun to be silly and relive the "old days."  

I am glad that side ponytails are not in anymore, I had a splitting headache when the night was over!

Daddy Daughter Date

Last Saturday, Justin took Karis on a Daddy Daughter date to get ice cream and to work on a special project.  I wasn't even in the know of what they were going to do, so after they had been gone over two hours, I was beginning to worry that something had happened.  I couldn't possibly imagine what they could be doing for that long since neither one of them like to talk much.  When the door opened almost three hours later, this is what Karis excitedly showed me:

It is a poster that tells "all about Karis."  She was beaming when she showed it to me, rattling off all the things on the poster a mile a minute.  Her enthusiasm was so contagious that she had a hard time going to bed!  I am so thankful that Justin loves being with his girls, big or small!  He is a treasure.

While they were gone, Noah and I had some ice cream, did some puzzles, and played Justin's guitar.  (We tried to play!)

He is not very musically inclined, but at least he was praising the Lord with joy!

And yes, Noah's bed is NOT made and makes the best backdrop for his guitar playing!!! 

Avengers Assemble!

Friday night Family night brought the Avengers to our house, US!  We didn't do any special theme as far as movie and food, but we all wore our Avengers shirts!  The fun of superheroes!

Row, Row, Row Your Boat

Last Friday night, the kids experienced a first:

A BOAT RIDE!

We went to some friends new house for dinner, the Highsmiths, and after dinner, we went for a boat ride.  To say the kids were excited is an understatement.  They are usually pretty subdued at others houses, but as soon as dinner was over, they couldn't contain their enthusiasm.  The only way we could get them to come back to the house was to offer dessert!  If you know anything about my family, you know that the call for dessert never falls on deaf ears.  

Karis and Ms. Anne 

Both kids had a hard time being still on the boat, I thought I was going to have to put life jackets on them!

I couldn't resist putting this picture in, oh how I love my girl!  (She doesn't give me to many genuine smiles!)

The Pleasures of Home: Making Lunch

Lunch always seems to sneak up on me at home, especially when I am homeschooling.  If you know my husband though, he has an internal meal time clock which says noon is lunch time no matter what.  I find myself always in the middle of a lesson when he comes home, or almost finished with one.  Thankfully, during the summer, lunch has been an easier and on time event in the Childers' household.  One reason for this is my seven year old.  She can now make lunch for her and Noah, with only a little help from me. 

PB&J lunch of champions!  It is also easy for little hands to make.  

Noah anxiously awaiting his sandwich! Good job Karis Ann, I love seeing you embracing the "pleasures of home."  

The Pleasures of Home: Chores

I love my family, my home, and being a stay home/homeschooling mom.  I am however not the best at "staying" home.  I get cabin fever when we have been home all day and am usually ready to go and do something when Justin gets home.  (I know that I inherited my "cabin fever" from my dad, thanks dad!) With the Lord's help, I am hopefully instilling in my children a love for the home too, so I thought I would give a peak into our daily lives as we embrace the "pleasures of home."  

One of our daily routines is making our beds, except on Sundays of course.  

Karis has learned the art of bed making, and I have learned to let her do it herself, with only a small amount of tweaking.  

Noah cannot make his yet, but he does have to arrange his animals and pillow.  His time is coming soon though.

Chariots Banquet

Last week, Karis' coach had a dinner banquet for her soccer team.  This was our first time getting together at the end of a soccer season.  Her coach went all out, he had a buffet spread at one of our local Italian restaurants and gave trophies to the girls.  We all had a wonderful time talking, eating, and sharing fond memories of this season.

Karis receiving her very first trophy from Coach Lou.

Noah enjoying his cupcake.

Random Red Sox

Noah's second season of soccer was much better than the first.  Justin was his coach again, and Noah played on the field like he does at home.  He scored eight goals in all this season.  He learned to go after the ball and take it to the goal, and how to pass to his teammates.  He still doesn't like to get wet, but at least he can deal with it now and still play!  The sweetest part of the season was seeing Karis cheering for Noah when he scored, there is nothing like seeing your children cheer on each other.  What a blessing!

The Red Sox won a few and lost and lost a few, but they sure had a fantastic coach, in fact, I think he is pretty handsome too!  Thanks babe for giving your time for the kids and loving on them.

Champion Chariots

After three years of playing soccer, Karis was on a winning team.  Her team not only won more than one game, they were the 7-8 rec league Champions.  This was her first season playing up in the 7-8 league, and I have to say, it was the most exciting season yet.  The games were much faster paced and so fun to watch.  I enjoyed every game and loved watching her learn new things and actually implement them.  She also shared this season with her best friend Hannah.  It was nice to be on the same side and to see them get to play together and cheer each other on, and for us parents to do the same.

Champion Chariots Spring 2012

Karis learned many things this soccer season the most important was true team play.  She improved in passing, dribbling, defending the goal, positioning on the field (when to go to the goal and not stay bunched up), and continuing to try to score.  She didn't score any goals this season, but she cheered her teammates on when they did.  

A very special thanks to Coach Lou.  He did a stellar job with the girls and taught them so much.  Thanks for your time and willingness to pour into our girls.

Water Park Day

The kids ended school with a "water park" day with all their homeschooling buddies.  Karis did all the group games, while Noah stayed off by himself, doing his own thing...

first came the bubbles,

then came the sprinkler, 

and last came the slip-n-slide.

For someone who stayed by my side the first 30 minutes, he looks to be having a good time!

Karis and her friends got their first taste of summer.

First she had to run with the water balloon and sit on it to pop it,

then she had to toss the water balloon to her partner without popping it.

The pool opened this weekend, and the kids are ready to swim, swim, swim.  I don't know that I am, but summer is here.  I am ready for some relaxing, lazy summer days at the pool!

School is ....

SCHOOL IS OUT 

FOR THE SUMMER 

AT 

ALETHIA 

ACADEMY!! 

To think, I have no completed two years of homeschooling!  Wow, God is good and only with His help have we made it through.  I can't believe my girl is now officially a second grader, and that Noah is on his way to learning his letter sounds.  Where has the time gone?  

Now comes the fun of summer!  I am so excited about some of the things I have planned for us this summer.  I want this summer to be FUN, but I also hope to guide us to be aware of the needs of others.  

We will also be doing some math facts review this summer, tons of reading together and on our own, and reviewing all our fun spelling rules.  

I pray this is a summer the kids will remember....

Happy Birthday Dad!

For 33 years, I have been blessed and honored to call this man my dad, my safe place, my rock, and one of my best friends, (only by God's grace).  Today as you celebrate your 67th birthday..

I long to wrap my arms around you and whisper, in your good ear,

THANK YOU...

for being, displaying, loving, teaching, giving, growing, smiling, encouraging, holding, sitting...

in HIM.

I love you beyond words Dad.

I cannot imagine life without you.

God has been good to you and to us for giving you these 67 years.

I pray for many more to come....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

1st Annual Girls Retreat

Last week, Karis and I went on our 1st Annual Girls Retreat!  We went to a friend's beach house to spend the night and have some uninterrupted girl time.  I have been looking forward to this for awhile.  We arrived on Thursday night at the beach house after eating dinner at our favorite place.  We unpacked, surveyed the land, and curled up for a good movie, Ever After, thanks to my friend Lori.

We went to bed rather late, and it took awhile for us to go to sleep, nothing like girls being silly!  I was expecting to get to sleep in late, but at 6:40, YES I SAID 6:40, Karis said is it time to get up yet!  After a few minutes of cuddle time, we got up and went outside to read our Bibles.

We enjoyed an hour or so of Bible reading, listening to the birds, and watching a squirrel a scale a tree.

Breakfast consisted of her favorite, cereal bar and a banana.  I of course had to have a few cups of coffee!!!
We got dressed and ventured out to the beach to walk, talk, pick up sea shells, and see something Karis has never seen before:

TONS OF JELLYFISH! 

We spent a few hours on the beach, and Karis didn't even get wet!  She felt the water with her toes and realized it was too cold.  

This picture depicts the theme and attitude of the retreat, I am FREE!  We were free to discuss our feelings, not do any school work, talk about whatever came to mind, and do whatever Karis wanted to do. I think this freedom of her being in charge, to a certain extent, was good for her and she came out of her shell some.  We read books together, went for golf cart rides, walked, but most of all, I got to know my sweet girl a little better.  I got to listen to her, and she actually opened up.  It is an honor to be Karis' mom, and I am so thankful for her.  I am also thankful to God for this special time.

This is Karis' picture debut.  She took this picture with my camera.

Papa John Update

My dad went for his two week check up at MD Anderson today.  His doctor is very pleased with his recovery and decided to go ahead and schedule his chemo treatment.  There were no cancer cells found in his lymph nodes, but his doctor said that since his tumor was over 4 centimeters (it was actually 4.5cm) that he would need to do four rounds of chemo.  The treatments will be every three weeks, so at least he will have a few weeks in between to recover his strength.

I cannot express how grateful I am to all who have prayed and stood beside us through this time.  God continues to show me His faithfulness and love to all of my family.  Even though my heart aches to be there with my dad, I know that His Creator, Redeemer, and Healer is with him.  It comforts me to know that my dad is in His hands!

Super Heroes Take Two

There is no secret that my son loves dressing up and playing super heroes. A few weeks ago, when his friend Dylan was here, we were invaded by Iron Man and Spider-Man. They were on a mission to "Tony's hideout (with a map in hand)."

Visit to the Farm

For our March field trip, we went to Historic Oak View County Park in Raleigh. The kids were shown what life was like back in the 1800s. The tour was fantastic, and I was impressed with all the kids learned in a short period of time. We learned about raising cotton, why kitchens were in a separate building away from the house, how to wash clothes and other daily chores, and what it would take to make a pizza from scratch.

Tenaya, Karis and Topenga petting a large goat.

Karis washing her clothes!

She got to pick her own piece of cotton and pull the seeds out. It was a lot more work than she anticipated.

Noah got to milk a "fake" cow!

Next installment some more superheros, and what I have been finally learning to do, my favorite new hobby!

Calvin aka Green Lantern

Did you know we have a super hero in our family? His name is Calvin aka Green Lantern~! He is an ordinary, lazy dog by day, but his super powers include: a strong sense of smell (poop and bananas being his favorite), and a mighty bark to alert us of the UPS man, mailman, and that crazy Yellow cat that antagonizes him daily.

Meet Green Lantern:

Next time we need a funny story to tell, we will just dress Calvin up in Noah's super hero masks! If you are in need of a hero, you can call on Green Lantern, but be ware, if he is sleeping, he might not answer you!

Easter 2012

Easter Sunday is always one of my favorite Sundays. I had the privilege of serving in the nursery on Sunday morning, so I loved hearing the kids tell me what their Daddy preached on. After church, we attempted to take some pictures, but as usual, one of my children didn't want to. I am sure you can guess who!

My handsome husband and my little man.

Thanks to neighbor Rich, we got a family photo.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Easter, celebrating our Savior's death and resurrection!

"Up from the grave He arose!"

Thanksgiving on Thursday

Yesterday, Thursday March 8, our family received a miracle from the Lord, but let me back up and tell you how the story begins.

A few weeks ago, my dad fell and hit his side on the end of a boat while he was out fishing with a friend. After a few days, and continual pain, he went to get an x-ray to see if he had cracked his rib. The doctor found a mass on my dad's lung in the top right corner. After a CT scan a few days later, the word cancer again entered into our family.

My dad has lung cancer. Yes, our family had already received one miracle where cancer was concerned, my niece Brooklynn is now five years cancer free! The news really hit me hard, not because of the cancer but because I am so far away. The distance between my heart and my dad seemed to be such a huge chasm to jump through, but thankfully, God's peace weaved its way in my heart through much prayer. I found great peace, hope, and comfort in Isaiah 43.

But now thus says the LORD,

he who created you, O Jacob,

he who formed you, O Israel;

"Fear not, for I have redeemed you;

I have called you by name, you are mine.

When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;

and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you;

when you walk through fire you shall not be burned,

and the flame shall not consume you.

For I am the LORD your God,

the Holy One of Israel, your Savior."

-Isaiah 43:1-3a

After a PET scan and MRI, Thursday's news was another miracle for our family: NO CANCER ANYWHERE ELSE! Praise the Lord! The doctor will do surgery and remove the tumor on March 23. It was such a relief for me to book my plane ticket to Texas yesterday and finally know exactly when I will be able to wrap my arms around this most wonderful man, my dad!

Thank you so much for all the prayers and please continue to pray that the surgery goes well.

This trial has grown my faith and trust in our Savior and made Him more precious every minute. His peace and promise to always work everything for our good allowed me to face this trial with joy, no matter the outcome. Thank you Lord!